Pleasure in sex – How to make sex good?
Men and women enjoy sex differently. This can be seen most clearly by the timing of the act itself. For the average man, 2 to 5 minutes are enough for orgasm during penetration. For the average woman, this time is not enough. The time it takes for a woman to get aroused varies from 15 minutes or more!
Remember your average time of sex? Maybe you should change something? The time gap is absolutely real, but what can be done to make both feel good?
Increase foreplay time
A good and high-quality foreplay is vital for a woman to experience an orgasm. Weren’t talking about the format of quick sex when there are a couple of minutes and everyone is incredibly excited. In this case, the adrenaline goes through the roof and the sensations become sharper. We’re talking about sex that happens in the bedroom.
Dear men, a woman needs to be well aroused through kissing, massage, oral sex and penetration with fingers. These should be methodical and consistent. There’s no need to rush.
Communications
You can achieve a lot with words. How will your partner know what you want? Is he a telepath? Of course not, no one can read minds. Therefore, only practice and your guiding words, and movements. Show how to caress, where to caress, and with what force to press with your fingers. Ask your partner to be more gentle, or vice versa, more assertive.
Create an environment in which you feel good. This could be candles and music, your favourite linen or bed linen. Take a moment to whisper in his ear what image you would like to be in tomorrow or when you plan to have sex. Be free in your desires!
Sex Toys
Using toys during sex is normal. Most sexologists claim that sex toys have a beneficial effect on the climate in a couple, as well as on health. Sex toys are amazing tools that provide you with the pleasure you need and give you precious moments of shared pleasure.
Toys allow you to shorten the orgasm gap between partners, and you can enjoy simultaneous orgasms. Plus, sex toys bring such an important and necessary variety to a couple. A new sex toy / sexy lingerie / sexy accessories (handcuffs, mask, whip) gives a new breath of air, the opportunity to learn something new about your partner, and also to realise your erotic fantasies yourself.
